I recently came across this image and story and had to share
The man in this picture doesn’t know there was a snake underneath.
The woman doesn’t know there was a stone crushing the man.
The woman thinks “I am going to fall and i can’t climb because the snake is going to bite me. Why can’t he use a little more strength and pull me up?”.
The man also thinks “I am so much in pain…..yet I’m still pulling you as much as i can! Why doesn’t she try and climb a little harder?”
THE MORAL IS
You can never see the pressure the other person is under. The other person can’t see the pain you’re inTHIS IS LIFE …..
Whether it’s with WORK, FAMILY, FEELINGS with FRIENDS
We should try to understand each other a little more, Try to see the situation from the other person’s points of view
Put yourself in their shoes
Learn to think differently.
Be more open to others perspectives and opinions
A little kindness and patience goes a long way.
Every one we meet is fighting their own battle. Some you will never hear about.
You may wish other people would be more understanding and compassionate and helpful to you. So be all those things for other people
-Lovi Deschene once gives some priceless advice….she said
Practice the PAUSE……
Pause before assuming…
Pause before accusing…..,and
Pause when ever you are about to react harshly.
You might avoid saying things you’ll later regret
BE KIND TO EACH OTHER.
BE KIND TO YOUR SPOUSE
